Lazy Man or Too Hard a Working Woman?

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"You're so much better at cooking and cleaning than me. Why don't you just do it?" Sound familiar? This behavior is called "weaponized incompetence," and it's more common than you'd think.

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Men and women can be perpetrators of weaponized Incompetence. In this conversation with @thatdarnchat, we discuss domestic labor equity, Fair Play, communication and when these patterns go from selfish to abusive. In this conversation we are discussing when men are the perpetrators of this, but note that it isn't all men nor it is only men.

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In this episode, Elle tackles the issue of weaponized incompetence in relationships and the importance of setting high standards. She discusses the significance of recognizing the bare minimum and urges listeners not to settle. Elle shares anecdotes from real-life situations and offers advice on how to navigate these challenges. She talks about the importance of being ready to leave a relationship that isn't serving you and maintaining a level of self-sufficiency. She stresses that one should never tolerate a partner who is unwilling to contribute to the relationship or assist in household tasks. Elle highlights the importance of self-love and self-respect, and ends with a powerful call to action - stop dating men who hate you.