@rebeccaschroeder8891
THIS RIGHT HERE...... I WAS THE RESCUER, AND FIGHTER FOR MY FAMILY TOO, I ALSO WAS THE FIXER AFTER I MET MY HUSBAND JOHN THINGS BEGAN TO CHANGE, I HAVE LEARNED HOW TO SET UP HEALTHY BOUNDARIES WITH TOXIC FAMILY MEMBERS. I AM HATED AND TOLD I AM BEING RELIGIOUS OR WHATEVER THEY MAY SAY BUT I AM CALLED TO MY HUSBAND, AND MY CHILDREN FIRST. GOD HAS BEEN TEACHING ME BOUNDARIES, WHERE IN MY CHILDHOOD I NEVER SEEN NOR WAS BOUNDARIES MODELED FOR MY SIBLINGS AND MYSELF. I NEEDED THIS
@kathleensmith2834
Wow!! This was a right on word for me. I have my older daughter living with me & has been the last 5 1/2 years & it was to only be a year. Watching this, I have learned that I have to set the boundaries for her otherwise she will not grow. I need to let go & let God be her mediator, not me. Thank God for this word & these beautiful women.
@Godslight1970s
That was a word a word a word! "I was trying to train my husband and serve my kids" Thank youšš¾
@S5767
Just what I needed to learn. My dad is a narcissist and my mom has been conditioned to this treatment even when thereās solution, she doesnāt want to change new ways. I felt bad for her and kept trying to build her up in God but to no avail. She only hears and doesnāt act on it. Today I stopped! I will not be guilty for the choice that she makes consciously every single day.
@aissers6840
This is exactly what I'm going through... feeling guilty by not rescuing everyone...š Learn to pray for someone. God does his best works when we are broken. I need to set healthy boundaries.
@pumpfidentwoman
I have had to put boundaries on people. You only take what you allow! There has to be healthy, Godly boundaries in any healthy relationship. Restoration requires repentance. This can take time and the time for restoration varies with each child of God and situation. The Bible says guard your heart.
@sarahfetterman-n4x
Thankyou for these talks they are so filled with wisdom, I'm from a non Christian family who's really affected my life for so long, and what your talking about is untalked about at church, bless you ladies š
@carolinechuna2112
š„š„š„ My Family Is Torn Apart, There Are Some Who Wish To Reconcile, But Some Want Nothing To Ever do With Each Other Again, Yet It is All From Very Small Misunderstandings..Jesus Have Mercy, š My Prayer That We All Can Loveā¤ Each Other Again As Christ Lovesā¤ Us Unconditionally.. Thank You For This Message And Prayers By Cece.
@terri.schenk
Ladies, this is so good, wise and full of so much grace. Thank you.
@debbieheimann1533
Thank you ladies for your wisdom and prayer at the end for families. Blessings š
@avisienitcuevas
Blessings to everyone thank you for being real and sharing your stories. Thank you for your wisdom and nuggets. Thank you for your advice.
@jeaninerichardson7179
I Most Definitely need this because sometimes you teeter between a false peace vs needing to have an in depth conversation because we absolutely need the Holy Spirit and His Gift of Discernment.
@TruthWillprevail13
Jesus, hear my prayers. I want to quit but Iām holding on to my faith. As a single parent things are hard on me both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. Iām constantly struggling to provide the basic necessities for them Iām so ashamed. God hear my prayers. Every month I constantly struggle to pay my bills and struggle to provide groceries for my children Im so ashamed. BUT I KEEP FAITH. Even though I want to give up. Amen!
@journeytothinify
This hit me SO HARD today..Iām struggling badly with my 78 year old Mom whom I have always been made responsible for since I was a baby. My Dad passed away three years ago and, since then, I and my Husband are the only two people sheāll allow to help her with anything. She refuses to drive, always has, wonāt call a Dr for herself more often than not, wonāt go anywhere with anyone else, has no friends and doesnāt want any and is extremely difficult to be around. Shes narcissistic and completely self absorbed. I cannot figure out how to have boundaries with her when she relies on me for everything. Grocery shopping, Dr appointments, picking up prescriptions, getting to church etc etc etc. and it causes a LOT of stress on myself, my Husband and our adult handicapped Son we are guardians of. Helpā¦please
@marjorymsuku9312
AMEN to kindly truth-telling the toxic person; describing for them what healthy behaviour looks like. Thank you, Ladies, for the much needed topic!ā¤
@sahndrafondufe3129
I love this!!!! Train my children. love my husband. Got it. This is the second time I'm hearing it. First from Pastor Mildred. Love it! Secondly, the message on forgiveness and restoration is WOW!
@serialafrinkan6450
By far the best episode ever!!
@nakibirigesharon8567
So glad to have Ms Taylor Madu on this setā¤
@miahairston3743
Lisa Bevere is the truth!
@gingerlee4116