Your acting skills are getting better day by day๐
Narcissists suddenly get amnesia when you caught them lying. This video is so perfect. The narcissists are exactly like this. So cunning lunatics. ๐ก๐ก๐ก
Perfect choreography on Narcissim
All very true. Many times throughout the day, his face goes blank and his eyes go dead. I say something and he suddenly snaps out of it. It's bizarre. Yes their sudden 'memory loss' is infuriating. They know fine well. Your acting skills are top notch, Danish!
I watch how they'll peek up to check your reaction, while pretending to play the victim/cry, etc. People in genuine pain aren't checking your response to them every 10 seconds.
Ask them to do something for you. Something small. Something you would do for them with no hesitation. If they are narcissistic or otherwise toxic, it will ALWAYS go at least 1 of 4 ways (though sometimes these reactions may compound): They will act as though they didnโt hear you. Depending on how long youโve been in the relationship, you may ask again. If itโs been long enough, youโre likely to drop the request right then and there. They will promise to do it, but never follow through. If you ask again or remind them, they will usually have some kind of excuse. In these cases, they will still never actually fulfill their promise. Their excuse is not a reason for lagging, it is the reason they should be absolved from all expectation whatsoever. Often this excuse will be meaningless or an outright lie.If you donโt buy their excuse, and tell them so, you will experience the wonderful segue into reaction. An argument will ensue The argument will be your fault. It could be a small back and forth contending against your request, or it might quickly devolve into them screaming at you. You never know which it will be. They might even say outright that you should never ask or expect anything from them. Usually they will express that you are asking too much, hurting them in some way (financially, emotionally, insulting them, etc), or attack your character. The argument will only end when you relinquish your request + apologize, or start ignoring them completely. If you can ignore them long enough, they may apologize to you. However, the conflict will never feel truly resolved. At this juncture they may actually end up giving you what you asked for. Often this does require you admitting that you donโt really need it, or that you would be fine with what they suggested instead. This leads us to reaction They give you what you asked for, BUT There is ALWAYS a catch. It might be small. They show up late with no apology. They buy you what you wanted, but itโs the wrong color, model, brand, etc. They take you where you wanted to go, but pressure you the whole time youโre getting ready because youโre going to be sooo late. Then they want to leave early anyway. It might be worse. They do it out of anger, and make a big display out of it to scare/hurt you. They hold it over your head until you do something for them first. Or, later on, they use it against you. โI did x for you, so you should do y for me.โ No matter what, you never actually feel fulfilled, happy, or loved when they do something for you. Somehow, even from the getgo, there was this deep-seated feeling of guilt and fear, this sense that the โspecialโ things they were doing for you werenโt so special at all. Eventually, you become afraid to ask for anything. Youโve been conditioned to believe you deserve nothing. Ironically, or not, the less demands you make, the worse you will be treated. Moreover, Catching a cheating spouse might be difficult, and knowing what local laws say you can and cannot do might be even more difficult. To simplify the process, consider hiring a private investigator to do the sleuthing for you I genuinely appreciate how incredible you are and your work! Thank you for a job well done digitalinvestigate@gmail. com
๐๐๐๐ Funny and frighteningly accurate
๐ฏ percent accurate. It's a true blessing that someone can bring these disfunctions to light.
A weird habit is exhibitionism. They would wait in inappropiate clothing, exposing themselves on purpose, and then acting confused. Or showing snort, and waiting for you to react, or leaving feces on the toilet brush for getting a reaction...or leaving the clothes in the washing machine on purpose, so they start to stink...covert narcistic mother does that, but for outsiders she appears as a proper, clean woman ๐ฎ๐ข
The blank look was classic๐ !! I even used to tease him with that (of course, without knowing what Iโm dealing with). No surprise! Got dumped, Praise God๐๐ฝ
Omg dead ๐๐ what an acting good job keep exposing such creeps like that ๐๐ ๐
OMG DANISH YOU ARE SOOOOO GOOD AT THIS!!!!
You made my day with this one. Every time my narc mother makes those faces Iโm going to think of this video & try not to laugh at her. ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
I've noticed the short memory. And the selective memory trick. Thankyou.
hahahaha so funny !we love when you make such shorts,You have a great acting skill,so accurate and hilarious
Holy Moly!! You just described them to a T !! LOL ๐๐๐๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐
That's It Danish, they remembered everything that I once done but forget what they have done frequently ๐๐พ
The fake crying ๐ญ got me ๐๐๐
The creepiest thing is nodding along to the first 6 like oh, I recognize that. And then "over time they start looking, dressing, and even talking like you" hit me like a bucket of ice water. How you 7 for 7 got all of my abusive ex's behaviors I could NEVER EXPLAIN to other people is terrifying and appreciated.
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